I work with people who look “fine” on the outside, but privately live with a constant belief that they’re the problem.
That something is wrong with them.
If that’s you, you’ll know what I mean:
Overthinking everything you say. Feeling like you always have to justify your feelings. Wondering why — no matter how kind, thoughtful, or self-aware you are — it still never feels like you’re good enough.
You didn’t choose to feel this way.
You were trained, early and behind closed doors, to believe your needs were unimportant, your emotions were wrong, or your being alive was somehow inconvenient and problematic.
That survival pattern kept you safe back then.
But now? It’s what’s keeping you stuck.
I know this because I lived it for decades.
I could find 20 things wrong with any idea, dream, or hope before it even had a chance.
I talked myself out of opportunities, connection, and joy more times than I can count.
That began to change when I stopped trying to “fix” the surface stuff and started listening to the deeper truth underneath it all.
Before this work, I spent 20 years in finance, helping over 5,000 people secure life-changing loans. I became the person they opened up to. Trusted. Referred. Came back to.
I built trust through empathy, compassion and truth, even in a very logical industry.
That hasn’t changed.
I created Start Living Your Truth because there’s so much advice out there that only touches the surface.
And people like us aren’t dealing with surface-level problems.
Yes, I can speak to overthinking, self-doubt, people-pleasing, burnout — all the things you’re told to fix. But those are just symptoms
What’s underneath is identity-level conditioning that cuts so deep, it shapes who you believe you’re allowed to be and the way you see yourself.
Most solutions focus on the symptoms.
I work at the deeper pattern — the one that taught you it wasn’t safe to exist as yourself.
Now, I help clients undo these inherited identities, survival-based behaviors, and the exhausting belief that they’re fundamentally flawed.
The Breakthroughs you’ll have that will shift how you think, feel, react, speak, and move through the world.
This work exists so the pain and suffering that changed you doesn’t keep affecting you, your children, your relationships, or the people you love,
I am READY To Break Free!
