When You Secretly Think You’re the Problem

Start Seeing What’s Really Going On

Because something’s not right.
You’ve tried to be better. Do more. Keep it together.

But deep down, you’re still wondering... “What’s wrong with me?”

I’m Ready to See… Just a Little
Only $7 /month

You Know That Feeling...

When everything looks fine from the outside

But inside it's anything but fine

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You’re always the one who keeps the peace

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You try to say the right thing, be easy to be around, not upset anyone

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You explain yourself too much

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You replay small things for days

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You always second guess yourself

You can’t tell if you’re overreacting

Or if people are actually treating you badly

Because deep down, there’s still that uneasy feeling

That no matter how much you try,it’s never quite enough or right

And yeah, no one really sees it—because you look fine

You function

You get things done

But underneath, you’re tired of trying so hard and holding it all together

Something’s off. You can feel it.
And it’s time to start noticing what that actually is

This Isn’t About Mindset!

It’s not that you’re negative or not trying hard enough.

What you’re dealing with are survival patterns.

Patterns you didn’t choose

They formed from situations where being honest, asking for something, or just existing as you were didn’t feel safe, important or welcome.

So your subconcious found ways to protect you.

Now, those patterns show up in ways that seem small:

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Saying “it’s fine” when it’s really not

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Over-explaining just to avoid being misunderstood

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Freezing when someone’s upset

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Taking the blame to keep the peace

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Feeling like you need to be useful to be kept around

Perception can be subtle, automatic, challenging self-awareness.

Most people think the problem is self-worth.

Or confidence. Or boundaries.

But underneath all of that is a deeper survival system still running

It builds up. It shows up in ways you don’t expect.

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That you’re too sensitive or emotional.

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Too much.

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Not good enough.

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Invisible. Unimportant.

Like no one really sees you or pays attention unless you’re doing something for them.

The Starter Space was created

to help you start seeing the survival system underneath all that

Without shame.

Without pressure.

And without having to dig into anything too deep or painful.

The Starter Space is a safe and compassionate space

where you can start noticing what’s actually going on underneath how you feel.

It’s not a course. It's not a program.

And it’s not going to ask you to deal with your past or change your life overnight.

It’s for people who know something’s not right—but don’t feel ready to go deep yet.

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People who still feel like they need to stay in control of how much they look at.

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People who want to understand why they feel the way they do—without being pushed into anything too big, too fast, or too emotional.

Each month, you’ll get small pieces of information to explore.

Moments of insight, reflections, patterns, new ways of seeing something that’s been hurting for a long time.

And you get to decide what you do with it—if anything.

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What's Inside the

Starter Space Monthly Membership

And Why It Works

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Monthly Insights to Help You See What’s Really Going On

Each month, you’ll get a short written piece or voice note that points out something you might not have seen before—like why you explain yourself so much, or why being around certain people always makes you feel bad. It’s not advice. It’s just something to notice. Something that might finally make some of it make sense. Topics vary but are always relating to the survival system at play.

Simple Journal Prompts (No Pressure to Use It)

You’ll get a question or reflection each month.
Just something to sit with. It’s not homework. No one checks it. It’s there if you feel like thinking about it—but it’s totally fine if you don’t.

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Small Truths So You Stay Grounded

You’ll also get a short visual—like a sentence or small truth you can put somewhere you will see it. Something that feels calming on days when everything gets too much.
Some people just look at that and do nothing else—and that’s enough.

A Tiny “Try This” Prompt

Get a really small thing to try. Like: “Next time you feel like you have to explain yourself, just stop and notice what comes up.” It’s not a tool. It’s not a fix. It’s just a different way to respond—so you can start seeing the pattern while you’re in it.

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Clarity Around Why You Still Feel This Way

Most people try to fix this stuff with mindset work, boundaries, or trying harder. But that doesn’t help when the real issue is a survival pattern that’s been running for years. Starter Space helps you start seeing that—without pushing you into anything painful.

Way to Start Healing, Without Feeling Exposed

You don’t have to talk to anyone. You don’t have to share anything. You can stay completely quiet and still get something real out of it. This space gives you structure without pressure. Insight without overwhelm. A small way in—without the fear of going too far.

Yes, I Want To Be A Member - Only $7 /month

You can’t keep living like you’re the problem.

Every day you overthink, over-explain, and try to get it “right”
is slowly eating away at your confidence and self-esteem

The Starter Space helps you see what’s really going on

underneath all of that

So you can stop blaming yourself

And finally understand the deeper pattern that’s been driving it all

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